Sex and porn are very different things. A lot of young men enter into sex imitating porn, and the results tend to be terrible.
In reality good sex is more about communication and trust than about being able to pull of crazy stunts. And once you have a good connection with someone exploring stuff is part of the fun, not something you’d like to outsource to a professional.
Of course sexologists can play an important role and people can take inspiration from wherrver, but it is really about something completely different. Porn does a lot of harm in general.
I like to think so, in all seriousness it was quite useful. Really emphasised importance of foreplay and safe sex (including how to use a condom) which when the time came as a teenager was invaluable.
Sex and porn are very different things. A lot of young men enter into sex imitating porn, and the results tend to be terrible.
In reality good sex is more about communication and trust than about being able to pull of crazy stunts. And once you have a good connection with someone exploring stuff is part of the fun, not something you’d like to outsource to a professional.
Of course sexologists can play an important role and people can take inspiration from wherrver, but it is really about something completely different. Porn does a lot of harm in general.
There are some great informational videos and books from porn stars out there that shouldn’t be ignored though.
There’s a whole world of sex education that is powered by sex workers and the like.
Nina Hartley made me better at cunnilingus. I had one ex who said, “How do you know!?” Well, that’s how.
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I think I saw the same video. My partner at the time was very pleased.
Where can you even get these? They are from the 1990s
https://www.thriftbooks.com/a/nina-hartley/264520/?srsltid=AfmBOopRebdCcRZRn_zcjLZOzzzf6402n8aGC2-RhjBs9tWccXgCjP6V
That doesn’t mean they don’t still exist. Also she wrote the book in 2006.
If you’re a Xennial its easy. Go back in time and search through your dad’s wardrobe. That’s how I watched it.
Did you learn anything?
I like to think so, in all seriousness it was quite useful. Really emphasised importance of foreplay and safe sex (including how to use a condom) which when the time came as a teenager was invaluable.