Lookup internal family systems (a good book would be “No Bad Parts”). It’s like you have parts of yourself arguing and putting other parts down. It’s all parts of you trying to protect you but they maybe don’t recognize the roles each part has. Try to find out what your anger is trying to say, sometimes when the part is heard it is more manageable. The point isn’t to make the anger go away but see if it can let other parts help in whatever need it is trying to accomplish.
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zbyte64@awful.systemsto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Seeing shit like this kills me. People are so ignorant.English2·25 days agoAcross the pond there were families that took in those refugees, invited Dietrich to speak to congregations, and stored his letters he sent from prison. In short, we should echo the voices of dissent and give them material support if possible.
zbyte64@awful.systemsto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Seeing shit like this kills me. People are so ignorant.English2·26 days agoDietrich Bonhoeffer was murdered by the SS because he didn’t stand idle as his country went full Nazi. He helped with multiple plots to assassinate Hitler, smuggled vulnerable people out of Germany and founded a church that rejected nazification that was later deemed illegal by the Nazis. The guy was a pastor. Do you honestly think he was dogshit for not doing enough?
There’s a difference between seeing and perceiving. If you see AI slop and don’t see how it is different than something crafted by a human expert, that is a problem of one’s perception.
- How Generative AI is framed by the industry is an affront to humanistic values.
- It’s not even close to consciousness. For those of us who understand how these things work it’s almost an insult to make the comparison.
https://addxorrol.blogspot.com/2025/07/a-non-anthropomorphized-view-of-llms.html
- All the other unethical considerations mentioned elsewhere by others (stealing art, water usage, politics).
zbyte64@awful.systemsto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Public transit in Toronto, Canada 🇨🇦 vs Chengdu, China 🇨🇳 English1·1 month agoHukuo in modern China could be perceived as prioritizing the right to have a home over choosing to have none. “At what cost” includes homelessness and higher unemployment rates. We are quick to highlight where there is a lack of right in China but not how it reflects on our own lack of rights. That is to say, they aren’t trading their rights for economic progress, which is how the west often frames progress (our foreign sweat shops are good actually because it helps them in the long run). They are trading one set of rights for another.
zbyte64@awful.systemsto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Public transit in Toronto, Canada 🇨🇦 vs Chengdu, China 🇨🇳 English1·1 month agoI don’t know about Canada but the USA has been pro-child factory work lately. China’s wages have been rising faster than expected so they have gone all-in on automation. So when I see people claim their stuff is cheap because of “slavery” or human rights, it reads like projection.
zbyte64@awful.systemsto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Public transit in Toronto, Canada 🇨🇦 vs Chengdu, China 🇨🇳 English33·2 months agoAnd what are the Uighurs making that is so interesting?
zbyte64@awful.systemsto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Public transit in Toronto, Canada 🇨🇦 vs Chengdu, China 🇨🇳 English131·2 months agoDid you know that most of China’s debt is held domestically?
zbyte64@awful.systemsto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Public transit in Toronto, Canada 🇨🇦 vs Chengdu, China 🇨🇳 English246·2 months agoI mean so does the United States thanks to the 13th amendment but we don’t have anywhere near the same infrastructure to show for it
zbyte64@awful.systemsto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Public transit in Toronto, Canada 🇨🇦 vs Chengdu, China 🇨🇳 English143·2 months agoOverproduction of commodities is certainly a problem for capitalists. But the workers get to enjoy a lower cost of living. Like I would much prefer we built ghost cities (Chengdu was derided as a ghost city at one point) than have a decades long housing crisis with no signs of improving unless we deport millions of people.
zbyte64@awful.systemsto Explain Like I'm Five@lemmy.world•What is going on with Luigi Mangione?English3·2 months agoDoes he have a grave? Would be ashame to let a good outhouse to go to waste
zbyte64@awful.systemsto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Wages are stagnant and cost of living is ridiculous. Are we headed for a crash?3·2 months agoThe stock market makes no sense to me.
That’s because “The market can remain irrational longer than you can remain solvent.”
zbyte64@awful.systemsto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•US Congressmen praying inside the House of RepresentativesEnglish1·2 months agoThat would mean admitting they did something wrong, which is impossible for these ghouls.
zbyte64@awful.systemsto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•US Congressmen praying inside the House of RepresentativesEnglish5·2 months agoWish they’d pray for forgiveness because then that would mean admitting mistakes.
zbyte64@awful.systemsto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Tomorrow you wake up with the power of Superman for 48 hours, what's on your to do list?52·3 months agoThere are about ~3000 billionaires. Or a billionaire every minute.
zbyte64@awful.systemsto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Why are there so many people on youtube cheering on Trump's national garde and denouncing the protesters, but so few showing up on his military parade?2·3 months agoI mean churches should be anticapitalist and before the turn of the last century they often were. But then property got expensive and churches would need loans… Now we have prosperity gospel and mega churches. The internet ran the same course but in just a couple decades.
zbyte64@awful.systemsto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Is empathy based on a financial bell curve?2·3 months agoOh man I have a story about an unhoused lady who has dementia. I walk my dog and sometimes she recognizes me, other times she has no idea. One of the days I was walking the dog and she forgot who I was and asked to pet my dog. She thought I was unhoused as well for some reason and told me about some good spots to sleep. These people know what it means to survive based on the kindness of others.
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Her name is Catalina, and sometimes I see her at church and she donated what little money she has. It sorta painful but then I remember how we treat her. We always have a place for her at our table to eat after the service. She’s our neighbor as far as we’re concerned.
zbyte64@awful.systemsto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Why are there so many people on youtube cheering on Trump's national garde and denouncing the protesters, but so few showing up on his military parade?17·3 months agoAside from the systemic reasons why the internet leans heavily right: when you deport people’s neighbors then politics is no longer a sports game and even the nonvoters understand this.
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No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model Book by Richard C. Schwartz