With you on all but makeup. I don’t do it but I know enough to know it is an art form and I also know there’s a paradox of self-expression that is intertwined with camp and seduction. These things are not inherently bad, but they are destructive when they are commoditized so that we start to think we have to pay admission to express ourself
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No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model Book by Richard C. Schwartz
Lookup internal family systems (a good book would be “No Bad Parts”). It’s like you have parts of yourself arguing and putting other parts down. It’s all parts of you trying to protect you but they maybe don’t recognize the roles each part has. Try to find out what your anger is trying to say, sometimes when the part is heard it is more manageable. The point isn’t to make the anger go away but see if it can let other parts help in whatever need it is trying to accomplish.
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Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Seeing shit like this kills me. People are so ignorant.English
2·3 months agoAcross the pond there were families that took in those refugees, invited Dietrich to speak to congregations, and stored his letters he sent from prison. In short, we should echo the voices of dissent and give them material support if possible.
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Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Seeing shit like this kills me. People are so ignorant.English
2·3 months agoDietrich Bonhoeffer was murdered by the SS because he didn’t stand idle as his country went full Nazi. He helped with multiple plots to assassinate Hitler, smuggled vulnerable people out of Germany and founded a church that rejected nazification that was later deemed illegal by the Nazis. The guy was a pastor. Do you honestly think he was dogshit for not doing enough?
There’s a difference between seeing and perceiving. If you see AI slop and don’t see how it is different than something crafted by a human expert, that is a problem of one’s perception.
- How Generative AI is framed by the industry is an affront to humanistic values.
- It’s not even close to consciousness. For those of us who understand how these things work it’s almost an insult to make the comparison.
https://addxorrol.blogspot.com/2025/07/a-non-anthropomorphized-view-of-llms.html
- All the other unethical considerations mentioned elsewhere by others (stealing art, water usage, politics).
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Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Public transit in Toronto, Canada 🇨🇦 vs Chengdu, China 🇨🇳 English
1·4 months agoHukuo in modern China could be perceived as prioritizing the right to have a home over choosing to have none. “At what cost” includes homelessness and higher unemployment rates. We are quick to highlight where there is a lack of right in China but not how it reflects on our own lack of rights. That is to say, they aren’t trading their rights for economic progress, which is how the west often frames progress (our foreign sweat shops are good actually because it helps them in the long run). They are trading one set of rights for another.
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Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Public transit in Toronto, Canada 🇨🇦 vs Chengdu, China 🇨🇳 English
1·4 months agoI don’t know about Canada but the USA has been pro-child factory work lately. China’s wages have been rising faster than expected so they have gone all-in on automation. So when I see people claim their stuff is cheap because of “slavery” or human rights, it reads like projection.
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Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Public transit in Toronto, Canada 🇨🇦 vs Chengdu, China 🇨🇳 English
33·4 months agoAnd what are the Uighurs making that is so interesting?
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Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Public transit in Toronto, Canada 🇨🇦 vs Chengdu, China 🇨🇳 English
131·4 months agoDid you know that most of China’s debt is held domestically?
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Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Public transit in Toronto, Canada 🇨🇦 vs Chengdu, China 🇨🇳 English
246·4 months agoI mean so does the United States thanks to the 13th amendment but we don’t have anywhere near the same infrastructure to show for it
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Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Public transit in Toronto, Canada 🇨🇦 vs Chengdu, China 🇨🇳 English
143·4 months agoOverproduction of commodities is certainly a problem for capitalists. But the workers get to enjoy a lower cost of living. Like I would much prefer we built ghost cities (Chengdu was derided as a ghost city at one point) than have a decades long housing crisis with no signs of improving unless we deport millions of people.
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Explain Like I'm Five@lemmy.world•What is going on with Luigi Mangione?English
3·4 months agoDoes he have a grave? Would be ashame to let a good outhouse to go to waste
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Wages are stagnant and cost of living is ridiculous. Are we headed for a crash?
3·5 months agoThe stock market makes no sense to me.
That’s because “The market can remain irrational longer than you can remain solvent.”
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Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•US Congressmen praying inside the House of RepresentativesEnglish
1·5 months agoThat would mean admitting they did something wrong, which is impossible for these ghouls.
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Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•US Congressmen praying inside the House of RepresentativesEnglish
5·5 months agoWish they’d pray for forgiveness because then that would mean admitting mistakes.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Tomorrow you wake up with the power of Superman for 48 hours, what's on your to do list?
52·5 months agoThere are about ~3000 billionaires. Or a billionaire every minute.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Why are there so many people on youtube cheering on Trump's national garde and denouncing the protesters, but so few showing up on his military parade?
2·5 months agoI mean churches should be anticapitalist and before the turn of the last century they often were. But then property got expensive and churches would need loans… Now we have prosperity gospel and mega churches. The internet ran the same course but in just a couple decades.
Being right isn’t as important as doing right. I have better things to do with my time, unlike marketers.