It kind of sounds like a form of exposure therapy.

I was not able to read this, as I am an idiot, but I upvoted just for the effort.

It’s not weird. I would affirm yourself that they did not do everything right, and the things you’re angry about you have good reason to be. But let the anger and hate fade. They were probably trying their best. And the older you get the more you realize that we are all winging it. Now that you are an adult you can set healthy boundaries and interact with them on your own terms.

There’s some stockholm syndrome between children and parents and I think it’s natural to get angry as you move past that. But as an adult you can have a relationship with them where you see them more as flawed peers than omnipotent parents. Of course not everyone will want to have that relationship, but if you can and want to then I think it’s worth it.

https://www.wired.com/story/why-everything-in-the-universe-turns-more-complex/

The basis of most modern day US Republican policies is simply might makes right.

I know it’s just how the courts work but how can it be the people vs him when the people seem to support him. The state vs maybe.

I saw your incorrect comment on top and though “what is this, reddit?”.

Then you owned up to it and thanked him for the info. Nope! Definitely not reddit.