Case in point

Omg who uses that?

MM/dd/yyyy date format by default on software

This is not your ADHD, this is some sort of antisocial behaviour, maybe driven on by one or more (maybe undiagnosed) personality disorders. I’d recommend at least getting checked by a professional in the field (psychiatrist perhaps, depending on your country) so you can find out what is driving this behaviour, and then you can make a decision on whether you want to address it or not. Knowledge is power and knowing more about yourself is helpful, regardless whether you decide to address it or not.

I live without HA voice control because the wake word detection for my language doesn’t work reliably yet