When i start a new hobby, it is enjoyable by me. For me this is a problem, because after some time of working on it, it becomes not enjoyable. I dont know how to make a hobby that i want to work enjoyable for a long time, or find an interesting thing, that by itself is enjoyable for a long time.
For me its much easier to work on something when i do it together with someone. For me this is a problem, because i dont have even a single friend, and i dont know any adhd specific ways form a friendship as adult. My parents and psychiatrist just gave me a rough advice, and not the exact steps that i need to follow to form a friendhip.
I want to have a single hobby, like normal people do. Normal people can just find any thing that interests them, get a hobby of it, and work on it for as long as they want. For me, this is problem, because for me, every time i need to find new thing to get hobby of it. If i will not find that thing in time, i will lose interest to current hobby, quicker than find interest for new hobby.
This comment is good, but i have several questions. I cant get treatment, because after getting to psychiatrist and taking a psychology test, they said that they did not indentified adhd in me. Thats why i asked my question here, because there is no “laziness” community where i could ask it, and this community is the most related to the situation i have. And lastly, if it is not the laziness and not adhd, than what is it?
For me, literally game changing item is a game controller. For the games with native controller support it is awesome. Its easier and more confortable than mouse and keyboard. Of course it is not comparable with mouse and keyboard, especially in games heavily relied on mouse, but for anything else, on my opinion, it is a better option. My controller is quite cheap, but works well. I bought a controller to see what it is and how different it is for gaming, compared to mouse and keyboard. At first it was difficult, as i did not have an experience with controller, but now i enjoy it.
So you mean that i should get a set of hobbies, and switch between each of them, after other hobby from this set becomes boring? How many hobbies should be enough to have enough time to return to previous hobby without being bored of it?