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Cake day: June 30th, 2023

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  • Yeah, my mother was with a guy she was dependent on when I was a kid. He was also a drunk, violent and controlling. Dunno if this guy is violent, but this level of controlling usually gets violent. You’re doing your kid a disservice by staying with him, and they might very well resent you for it later in life, or at the very least learn an extremely unhealthy relationship model from the two of you.

    Either way, good luck with this. Others have told you how to actually get rid of the parental controls for real. I think you’re gonna find its not as simple as just uninstalling stuff.













  • It’s been 9 years, I’m married again (happily), and my ex-wife is never coming back.

    It’s difficult to go from best friends who tell eachother everything, to strangers.

    It took a lot of therapy for me to realize that we both played a part in our marriage ending, and it wasn’t all my fault. But, I also learned in the process that my childhood really screwed me up, and I needed to deal with it, and reconcile with the fact that I didn’t have a loving childhood. The abuse, both verbal, physical, and sexual has had a lasting effect on me as an adult.

    But, most importantly, I learned that I can heal from all of it, and grow as a person.

    I think she’s happy now, and so am I. So even though I still miss her once im a while, I know things worked out for the best.