LordMayor

Do you know anyone that you trust unconditionally?

You should assign someone durable power of attorney so that they can make decisions and manage your finances. Start planning medical and care decisions right now.

Otherwise, why do you think you would buy a gun? That’s not really common among people with dementia. Does your state have medical marijuana? Get a medical marijuana card. Most places, that will disqualify you or make it difficult.

Make sure someone is getting you evaluated regularly. Mental illness is also a disqualifier for gun purchases. A dementia diagnosis won’t necessarily disqualify you, though (except in Hawaii and Texas).

Also, check if your state has passed Donna’s Law.

Dude, fuck off with spamming your content here. This isn’t Reddit.

So far, OP has posted this to: mildlyinfuriating, til, nostupidquestions and showerthoughts.

Dude, fuck off with spamming your content here. This isn’t Reddit.

So far, OP has posted this to: mildlyinfuriating, til, nostupidquestions and showerthoughts.

I don’t think it’s unreasonable to want to avoid your MIL. I also think it’s reasonable for your wife to maintain the relationship.

Can you use her visit as excuse to take a vacation—alone or with friends—or visit your family? Given the circumstances, I think avoidance is a perfectly valid option. Get some you time if your wife is cool with it.

FYI, most Mullvad exit nodes are blocked by big services.

You have to try different ones to find one that works. I have found just a couple that work for, for example, Netflix or Reddit.

Proton and PIA seemed to be easier, I think they have more exits and/or rotate the IP addresses of the exits.

I like Mullvad as a company better so I use them.