I am extremely conflict avoidant, hence the Lemmy thread haha. Not cheesy, just smells like old BO. Real old. Gym shorts that were re-worn a few times then left in a duffle bag in a hot car for a week. Times 2. A ~6ft radius outdoors.

Sometimes. Maybe with one of these people but I really think some of them are saving water or don’t like the feel of water on them maybe? Maybe it’s a protest against big soap. Looks like I’m going to have to get the courage to ask.

I totally understand that angle and I’m sorry you ever felt that way. I’m no stranger to depression and I know it’s possible seem “fine” while struggling greatly. Maybe that’s all it is but I hate to think my friends are struggling that bad without talking to me about it. I’m pretty close with two of them. We talk about that kind of stuff and they haven’t said they’re so sad they can’t shower. Pretty sure it’s a conservation issue, or maybe a sensory issue. Hmmm

It depends on the person apparently bc one of my friends has been like this for years, still smells real bad.

I should have clarified, the people I’m curious about in my life have homes that have running water AND a working hot water heater. They’re not mentally ill in an outwardly visible way, they have jobs, a social life, etc. Not saying they don’t have struggles, but they are a lot different than the person you describe.

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