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  • Because people keep paying for blatant scams, terrible deals, and shit we don’t need in general. It’s why everything keeps getting so expensive, INCLUDING our necesities, and they won’t get cheaper until people stop buying. It’s why companies are allowed to get away with ripping us off or doing blatantly evil shit, and they’re not gonna stop until people stop buying.

    I’d argue the reason why prices keep going up is due to the parasite class at the top squeezing people more with each passing day.

    What do you view as people being smart with their money, like investments and bonds and stuff? I can’t afford groceries, I certainly can’t afford a 401k. Likewise, it’s rational to save for retirement, but with WW3 escalating, the climate crisis, and a general feeling that you might not live to see next week - people are going to ask what’s the point?

    Although I will agree that the blame for rampant consumerism outside of necessities must lie at least partly with the consumers. It takes two to tango after all

    More to your question: I’ve never actually heard someone use that phrase, but I have encountered the sentiment that someone can spend their own money however they see fit. That’s entirely true, and you’re not going to change their mind if you take an aggressive stance. If you call people stupid for spending their money on their own happiness then you’re not going to ingratiate yourselves to them and they’re just as likely to spend more to spite you, further entrenching their own opinion.

    Gentleness, empathy, and education go a lot further in influencing people’s behaviour. Their opinion of how they spend their money feels correct to them, just as your opinion of how they spend their money feels wrong to you. In any conflict you have to allow that your opinion isn’t correct just because it’s your opinion - either side usually does not have all the facts or perspectives















  • I think it’s normal and healthy, if it’s not taken too far. Same goes for mainstream religion.

    Religion is ultimately about answering the unanswerable. Why are we here, the meaning of life, what happens after we die, that kind of thing. Nobody is able to answer these questions with evidence, so therefore any established religion has just as much credence as whatever you come up with yourself.

    Denying objective reality or restricting the rights of others is where you have to draw the line though. That’s where things become weird.

    Regarding mixing christian and pagan rites, there’s a fascinating history of how catholicism in particular incorporated pagan beliefs into their own pantheon. If it’s okay for them to pick and choose what to believe, then the same goes for everyone else too




  • I’m not a doctor, but I don’t think you’ll have much luck finding one to help you with that. The legality behind physician-assisted suicide will definitely vary by country, but I’m pretty sure no doctor will go through with it over a mental health concern. Maybe if you had like a traumatic brain injury that made you unable to care for yourself, but that’s technically a physical health issue

    I don’t want to die but I don’t think there’s any other choice

    This statement is reason enough to prevent a doctor from killing you. If you don’t want to die, they won’t make it happen - consent is super important for something that grave. Suicidality is also very often a temporary thing, some day you might change your mind. There’s a reason that euthanasia is used almost exclusively for the terminally ill.

    I’m sorry you’re struggling. The specter of homelessness hangs over my head too, and I often think I’d rather be dead than have to deal with that. But every time I’ve almost died I really didn’t want it to happen.

    You probably should still talk to a doctor about this. If you’d rather kill yourself than live without support then that should help illustrate the severity of your disability. Not knowing what country you’re currently in, I can’t tell you what support is available to you - but there’s almost certainly something that can be done to help you.