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Cool stuff right? Everyone can spy on you, and you can keep them guessing by behaving incongruent. Lots of fun!

There are many things at play in situations such as you describe. One of which is often a form of jealousy “I don’t feel happy, so you shouldn’t either”. People often don’t even realize they do this, sub conscious.

They probably don’t intend to be negative, just haven’t found a way to better be.

Darn free water, diluting everything!

You’re right.

You’re right.

You’re right.

Is there any difference?

That is an index finger.

EDIT: Well, color me corrected, weird flex!

Ask questions, like “How did you interpret what I said?”. Neutral and always non-confrontational. Make sure it’s an open question, so no yes/no answers.

That will help you understand their thought process and figure out a more effective way to explain yourself to that person. Maybe even in general.

I’ve spotted the developmentally impaired person.

To some people yes, to many people no.

Just be respectful, kind and considerate. She’s an adult.

And then the lady has the same name as your dog…

It’s a good start. It’s where everyone starts I think. Even trans people themselves first need to do a lot of soul searching and/or therapy in order to understand what they feel and why. It’s even harder for people on the outside to comprehend.

I see literally nothing wrong with this parents response; wanting your child to check all the boxes before making a life changing decision is good parenting.

One could always nitpick tone, but perfection is the enemy of good enough.