• Ellia Plissken@lemm.ee
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    even straight women like them. I was listening to some NPR thing about this guy in his 50s who got implants, and sometimes wears dresses and heels, but still considers himself a cis man, and his wife said fucking a man with tits is one of the hottest things you can do.

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        I remember reading a post where the she’s explaining her bisexuality to her grandma and grandma goes, “oh everyone has those feeling. I had feelings for one of my girl friends when i was a teenager.” She then had to explain that no not everyone has those feelings.

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        she said she was straight. how’s about we don’t go around telling other people their sexual orientations

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          Yes, and labels suck. Don’t limit your yourself involuntarily just to fit into one.

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              Nobody? That was a general statement, sorry if that was unclear formulated. I just see many people that first set a label for themselves and then try to fit into it, instead of just doing what ever they want and just use them as a short hand to explain themselves.

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                setting aside the fact that you replied to my comment using “yourself”, if you are referring to all people who use labels, then you are still referring to me. I use labels. it’s not involuntary or limiting.

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          Look, at some point, you gotta stop prefacing everything you say with a disclaimer which appeals to .01% of the population.

          If you’re a biological female attracted to men and feminine breasts, the common shorthand is “bisexual”.

          Sorry, not sorry

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            I have no idea what disclaimer you’re talking about. you don’t get to define other people’s sexuality