21NB🏳️‍⚧️, die/diens (they/them)

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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • As I said with friends I’m more open. We’ve discussed kinks and stuff in detail, what we’re into etc.

    But the line I draw is at announcing my current masturbation/having sex or whatever. They don’t need to know when I’m masturbating and I don’t need to know when they do either.

    We have discussed the frequency with which we do it, and even who among each other we “would hit” so to say. But saying I jack off four times per week is different from saying “hey heads up, you’re in a different city but I want you to know I’m horny as fuck and gonna get some good porn to watch now. Maybe I’ll even think about you lol”



  • Browsing those content types needs to be an enjoyable experience as well. Mastodon is best used for short text, Pixelfed is good for pictures, Lemmy is for forums/sometimes images and videos. Peertube is an actual video first platform.

    Spreadsheets and PDFs could be shared over Mastodon, just like they could be over Xitter. But that doesn’t make it a PDF based platform, or a federated spreadsheet editor. Which seems to be the thing the OP is asking for. A type of media that should be the main focus of a (Fediverse) social media platform.




  • As I clarified in another comment, I might’ve been a bit grumpier than I intended in my original reply due to some stuff that happened today. And the personal experience may be more valuable to others than it is to be so I didn’t think about that really. Maybe partially because of those same frustrations I skipped that thought, or not, I don’t know. Either way I didn’t mean to come over as rude, my bad.

    However, I do like forums like these for discussions about certain topics, and my initial thought was that this is a question for a medical professional and wouldn’t lead to any fun discussion, which is why I replied in the way that I did, if maybe with the wrong tone to the comment. So “not being here” isn’t the solution, in my opinion.


  • The other person’s comment got removed by a moderator because they called me a loser.

    Just because YOU don’t see it beyond “yes or no” doesn’t mean other people don’t.

    Fair enough. I’m fairly tired from work (and it’s almost bedtime for me), and still somewhat annoyed from some assholes on the tram that kept pressing the disabled button to keep the tram from moving to the next stop, so I might’ve been a bit more direct/rude than I meant to be in my initial reply.