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Andy@slrpnk.netto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do we stop people from defending billionares and trillion dollar companies?
7·1 个月前This. Arguing with people online is – with all due respect – a complete waste of time if your goal is to change the world.
Ignore the people who have dumb opinions. It isn’t as though if you win 500 arguments Elon Musk donates all his money to Socialism.
Go join a tenant’s union or a mutual aid society. Go build the alternative world that doesn’t transfer all our money upward.
(Also, though, if you do this long enough there will likely be a revolution. But that part comes after you feed and shelter enough people that it begins to become a threat to capital. It’s downstream. Either way, don’t bother trying to persuade strangers on the internet,)
Andy@slrpnk.netto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•If I wrote a script for a movie and sent it off to a studio or whatever. What prevents the person who recieved it from claiming it as their own?
16·1 个月前I think you’re asking the wrong question. The better question is ‘How do I get my screenplay produced?’
I’m not an expert, but my understanding is that movie studios don’t really produce unsolicited screenplays anymore. You really need to produce it yourself, or be a known screenwriter who has prior relationships with producers.
If you don’t already have writing credits and an agent, you likely either need to produce it yourself – which means finding a director and actors and raising the money to pay for things – or you should try to publish it as a novel that becomes groundshakingly popular like The Martian or Dungeon Crawler Carl.
But the good news is that you can rest assured that having it stolen isn’t a risk you need to worry about.
Andy@slrpnk.netto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How come Pornstars don't teach Master Classes? So the average joe or joness can improve relationships and get better orgasms. Who would be better than pornstars?
4·1 个月前First, I think something like this does exist. I’ve heard ads for a service that sounded similar to this this on the Savage Love podcast.
Second, anyone interested in this topic should check out a new docu series on Nebula called Goonworld.
In Goonworld, video essayist FD Signifier explores America’s simultaneous obsession with both enjoying and punishing pornography, sex workers, and the performance of sex.
It’s on episode two, and it’s very good.
I’ve just started having these conversations with my mom, because her mom just passed away at 99.
My mom isn’t as temperamental as you’re describing, but she doesn’t like talking about death. However cleaning out her mom’s old condo has forced her to think about it, and that’s the lens of the conversations.
It’s not going to be one conversation, btw. I think that’s the key thing to understand: you’re not trying to figure out how to talk to them about end of life planning one time, you’re trying to figure out how to talk to them about full-life planning maturely from now on.
I would focus on specific issues rather then a broad concept; relate it to things that others are going through as a reference point; discuss it through the lens of ensuring a long, dignified life instead of about the end part; and try to offer appealing solutions rather than problems that they need to solve.
For instance, ‘I was just talking to a friend who was visiting their dad, and he had a bad slip moving trash to the curb and is now thinking of moving into an retirement village. I’ve always imagined you guys living here forever, and I wanted to check if that’s what you guys want to do too, and if there are any renovations you’d be interested in to make it more comfortable.’
That’s very cool.
Andy@slrpnk.netto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•If you had procreated with an opposite-sex clone and produced a child, would that child also be a clone?
9·2 个月前I think this is mostly correct.
I think what you mean is that each chromosome has two paired arms that contain alternate versions of functionally the same content. It’s like if you had two cookbooks by different authors that had the same chapters and dishes, but different content. The two versions aren’t in the two strands of DNA, they’re in the two arms of each chromosome.
The problem is that during reproduction, each parent randomly contributes one of the two chromosome halves. When each sperm and each egg is made, there’s a 50-50 chance that it gets arm 1 or arm 2 from each chromosome.
If you were to engage in this exercise (which is tagged “selfcest” if you’re looking for erotic stories about this stuff), you’d encounter the same problem with incestual reproduction: unless the sperm and egg were prepared in a lab or using magic to ensure that each arm of each chromosome went into a different sex cell, you’d inevitably have cases where the sperm and egg both received their chromosome from the same arm.
You have genes from your mom and your dad. But in some regions of this offspring’s genome they’d receive two copies of genes from your mom and no copy of your dad’s, or vice-versa. And we rely on having two different copies as backups. This is why interbreeding produces birth defects and lower fitness: either parent can have a handful of bad genes, but if the other one has a good copy it’s often no biggie. But if you get two copies of the bad ones and no good copy (which is more likely if you marry your cousin or boink your clone) then you have problems.
To summarize, you wouldn’t faithfully duplicate yourself, you’d duplicate most of yourself.
So – assuming the offspring was viable – you’d kind of get a lower quality clone: the offspring would probably look almost like a twin of the original, but they might have worse eyesight. They might be stockier or lankier. They might have thin, anemic blood. They might have oilier skin and hair, or dryer, itchier skin and hair.
It depends where you live.
I honestly feel bad for the doomers in these kinds of comment sections who feel confused and aimless, like nothing is happening. I live in Oakland, California, and it’s clear to me that my community is not waiting around.
If you’re feeling adrift, let me know where you live and I’ll make suggestions. This sense of idleness is situational, and you can get involved in planning a revolution is you know where to look.
Andy@slrpnk.netto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•If my partner (biological-female) comes out as a trans-man. Wouldn't still being attracted to him make me (biological-male) homosexual?
22·2 个月前I can speak from experience here, because this actually happened to me!
My partner (born female) and I married in our late 20s. He was already casually gender non-confirming before we married, and I described myself as hetero-flexible. His transition was rather gradual, with no strict coming-out event, but it was something we discussed openly. After he began presenting as male on work settings, I began identifying myself as bisexual.
It worked out very well. As the person above noted, you can really call yourself whatever. If you wanted to, you could identify as straight with an exception made for a single person. Although I would advise against it, as your partner might take some offense, and it confuses people if you identify in a way that conflicts with your long term partnership. Most co-workers assume I’m gay because I’m married to a man, and I don’t bother to correct them.
Sometimes it comes up, because my husband and I have a biological son together, which isn’t a secret. Sometimes when taking about him and genetics, it leads me to explaining all of this. But as you can see, it’s unusual, but not that hard to explain.
Andy@slrpnk.netto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•When Stephen Colbert had The Colbert Report did the right ever realize he was doing a parody of them?
2·2 个月前I’m kind of surprised how many people in this thread don’t seem aware of this. Are these gen-Z folks who weren’t around for the 90s, or did people not know this back then?
Andy@slrpnk.netto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•When Stephen Colbert had The Colbert Report did the right ever realize he was doing a parody of them?
2·2 个月前This. They knew he was a satirist, they just didn’t expect him to bring weapons-grade jester’s privilege.
Andy@slrpnk.netto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•When Stephen Colbert had The Colbert Report did the right ever realize he was doing a parody of them?
3·2 个月前I think you’re confused. O’Reilly knew Colbert was mocking him in particular and hated Jon Stewart and Stephen Colbert. My recollection is thathe occasionally interacted with them by appearing on the Daily Show or hosting either because it was good for ratings, but he never left any confusion that he hated their parody.
Andy@slrpnk.netto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Would people like a "X posts per Y" rate limit per user for this community?
6·2 个月前Personally, I would prefer if this kind of function happened at the feed curration level instead of the posting level.
If I could adjust a “User post concentration” setting, I’d say it to down-weight posts by any user within 12 hours of their last post by 50%, and stack this for further posts within 12 hours.
Then I’d adjust the timing and weighing as necessary
Andy@slrpnk.netto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do other countries view American super hero movie's always putting the threat in new york or whatever? Instead of their own country and have their own superheroes?
1·3 个月前What’s your personal media diet? Do you like similar adventure stories that are more local, or is that just not your thing overall?
Andy@slrpnk.netto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•If someone was shrunk down to the size of an ant would they be able to make a little ant sized campfire with the same principles? Does it scale like that?
13·3 个月前I’ve never heard that before! It’s interesting.
I think it depends a ton on environmental conditions. Could combustion on planets with different gravity and pressure take place at different scales?
Andy@slrpnk.netto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Did Iran really strike first without a reason or is it BS (like I think it is) and the US is saying they struck first?
2·3 个月前What’re your recs? I used to sometimes check out the BBC but at some point they paywalled it. I like the Guardian, but I’d be glad for more suggestions.
I meant to say that Al Jazeera’s bais leans against the US, which is useful for getting alternative takes.
Andy@slrpnk.netto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Did Iran really strike first without a reason or is it BS (like I think it is) and the US is saying they struck first?
2·3 个月前I thought it was implied in my comment that I was saying that it’s biased in more or less the other direction, but I realize I should’ve written that out.

Walkin’ on the Sun, by Smashmouth
It’s from '97, but for anyone who wants to know what the end of the twentieth century sounded like, this, imo, is it.