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Cake day: June 16th, 2023

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  • From what I’ve read of your responses, you point the finger at the boy’s parents for encouraging it because they’re wealthy. Were you not aware when you let him stay with you for the holidays? Isn’t it fairly obvious what would happen if you’re condoning them being together like that in the first place? I can appreciate being in an unideal situation, but from the outside it appears you helped to craft it.














  • That’s not a norm I’ve ever heard. More often than not, there is forgiveness because of the emotional attachment. Things work for a while, then it happens again. This keeps happening and deteriorating the trust until finally the relationship has mutated into an unrecognizable shadow of it’s former beauty.

    Many people have experienced this, thus the given advice. I’ve learned that providing that kind of advice can damage the relationship with your friend (because of said emotional attachment), so I don’t bother. It’s something people have to learn on their own.